The Best Movies for Tween Girls

As a mom of three girls—two of whom are tweens (ages 9-12)—I know the struggle of finding movies that hit that sweet spot. They've outgrown Disney's animated classics but aren't ready for mature teen content. After countless movie nights and plenty of trial and error, I've curated this list of the best movies for tween girls that promote positive values while keeping them thoroughly entertained.

Why Choosing the Right Movies for Tweens Matters

The tween years are crucial for identity formation. The movies our girls watch can significantly influence their self-perception, friendships, and values. That's why I prioritize films that showcase strong friendships, feature positive role models, and are just fun to watch!

Ali's Pro Tip: Before watching a new movie with your kids, I always check Common Sense Media reviews to ensure the content aligns with our family values. I recommend this practice for all parents navigating tween entertainment choices. And while this list leans toward what my girls love, these movies are great for any kid.

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Top 10 Best Movies for Tween Girls (Ages 9-12)

Ever After (1998: PG-13)

Why tweens love it: This Cinderella retelling features Danielle, a heroine who doesn't wait to be rescued. She's intelligent, brave, and stands up for others—making it the ultimate empowering fairy tale.

Perfect for: Girls who love period pieces and strong female characters Parent notes: Some mild language and romantic themes

The Princess Diaries (2001: G)

Why it's perfect for tweens: Mia's transformation from awkward teen to princess is relatable and inspiring. The movie tackles themes of self-acceptance and staying true to yourself.

Perfect for: Confidence-building and discussing identity Bonus: Anne Hathaway's breakout role that launched a beloved franchise

The Parent Trap (1998: PG)

Why it's a classic: This heartwarming story of twin sisters reuniting their parents combines humor, adventure, and family values perfectly.

Perfect for: Family bonding and sibling relationships Fun fact: Lindsay Lohan's debut that showcases clever problem-solving

Troop Beverly Hills (1989: PG)

Why it resonates: A mother's attempt to connect with her daughter through Girl Scout leadership creates both comedy and heart.

Perfect for: Mother-daughter relationships and perseverance 80s nostalgia: Great for sharing childhood favorites with your tween

A Cinderella Story  (2004: PG)

Why tweens request it repeatedly: Sam's journey from overlooked stepdaughter to confident young woman resonates with modern audiences.

Perfect for: Self-belief and following dreams Modern twist: Updates the classic fairy tale for contemporary tweens

Father of the Bride (1991: PG)

Why families love it: This heartwarming comedy about a father navigating his daughter's wedding plans is both hilarious and touching.

Perfect for: Family relationships and growing up Emotional moments: Prepare tissues for the father-daughter scenes

Enchanted (2007: PG)

Why it works for tweens: Giselle's journey from animated fairy tale to real-world challenges creates both laughs and life lessons.

Perfect for: Bridging childhood favorites with reality Magical elements: Combines animation with live-action seamlessly

Freaky Friday (2003: PG)

Why it's relatable: The mother-daughter body swap comedy helps families understand each other's perspectives.

Perfect for: Parent-child communication and empathy Life lessons: Understanding different generational challenges

Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone (2001: PG)

Why Hermione steals the show: Hermione Granger represents intelligence, loyalty, and courage—making her an ideal role model for tween girls.

Perfect for: Adventure and friendship themes Series starter: Opens the door to the entire magical Harry Potter universe

The Best Tween Girl Movies by Theme

Age Guide: Most G and PG movies are perfect for ages 8-12, while PG-13 films work best for mature 11-12 year olds. Always preview content to match your family's comfort level.

👑 Fantasy & Adventure Movies for Tweens

• Back to the Future (1985, PG)

• Enchanted (2007, PG)

• Ever After (1998, PG-13)

• Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone (2001, PG)

• IF (2024, PG)

• Jumanji (1995, PG)

• Moana (2016, PG)

• National Treasure (2004, PG)

• Raya and the Last Dragon (2021, PG)

• The Hunger Games (2012, PG-13)

• The Princess Bride (1987, PG)

💕 Romantic Movies for Tween Girls

• A Walk to Remember (2002, PG-13)

• Leap Year (2010, PG-13)

• Letters to Juliet (2010, PG-13)

• The Last Song (2010, PG)

• You've Got Mail (1998, PG-13)

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😂 Feel-Good Comedy Movies for Tweens

• 13 Going on 30 (2004, PG-13)

• 27 Dresses (2008, PG-13)

• Confessions of a Shopaholic (2009, PG-13)

• Father of the Bride (1991, PG)

• Freaky Friday (2003, PG)

• Just My Luck (2006, PG-13)

• Miss Congeniality (2000, PG-13)

• She’s The Man (2006, PG-13)

• The Parent Trap (1998, PG)

• The Proposal (2009, PG-13)

• Yes Day (2021, PG)

🎵 Musical Movies for Tween Girls

• High School Musical (2006, G)

• Mamma Mia! (2008, PG-13)

• Pitch Perfect (2012, PG-13)

• The Sound of Music (1965, G)

👑 Modern Princess & Empowerment Films

• A Cinderella Story (2004, PG)

• Cruella (2021, PG-13)

• Ella Enchanted (2004, PG-13)

• The Princess Diaries (2001, G)

💪 Girl Power & Inspirational Movies

• A League of Their Own (1992, PG)

• Hidden Figures (2016, PG)

• Matilda (1996, PG)

• The Devil Wears Prada (2006, PG-13)

• Troop Beverly Hills (1989, PG)

• Young Woman and the Sea (2024, PG)

How to Choose Age-Appropriate Movies for Your Tween

Consider Your Child's Maturity Level

Every tween develops differently. Consider your daughter's:

• Emotional sensitivity to conflict or scary scenes
• Interest in romantic themes (some tweens aren't ready)
• Ability to process complex storylines
• Previous movie preferences and reactions

Use Reliable Rating Resources

Beyond MPAA ratings, utilize:

• Common Sense Media for detailed content breakdowns
• Parent reviews from trusted sources
• Your own preview of questionable content
• Age-specific recommendations from educators

Making Tween Movie Night Special

Set the Scene

• Create a cozy viewing environment with blankets and pillows
• Prepare tween-friendly snacks (popcorn, fruit, or homemade treats)
• Eliminate distractions (phones, homework, chores)
• Let your tween help choose from pre-approved options

Frequently Asked Questions About Tween Movies

What age range is considered "tween" for movie selection?

Typically ages 9-12, though individual maturity levels vary significantly.

Are PG-13 movies appropriate for tweens?

It depends on the specific content and your child's maturity. My youngest (she is 8) watches movies that I would never have let my 12-year-old watch at that age. Always preview or research beforehand if you have concerns. 

How do I handle scary or intense scenes?

Preview movies first, discuss potentially frightening content, and reassure your child that it's just pretend. Before we watched any of the Harry Potter films, I told my kids that Harry would experience many situations where it looked like he would die. But given that the books and movies are called Harry Potter, do we think he will die in the first one? Those types of questions will allow you to have great discussions before you watch the movie.

Should I watch movies with my tween or let them watch independently?

Co-viewing allows for discussion and bonding, especially for new or potentially challenging content.

Building Lasting Memories Through Family Movie Time

The tween years pass quickly, and shared movie experiences create lasting bonds between parents and children. My kids and I have many inside jokes and phrases that we repeat over and over from these movies. These carefully selected films not only entertain but also provide opportunities for meaningful conversations about growing up, friendship, and values.

Whether your tween gravitates toward fantasy adventures, modern princess stories, or musicals, this curated list offers something for every personality and interest level. Remember, the best movie for your tween is one that aligns with your family’s values while sparking joy and imagination.

Final Thoughts

It’s important to note that not all PG or PG-13 movies are created equal. We love Cruella, You’ve Got Mail, and Mamma Mia!—but there are others I wouldn’t feel comfortable with for my girls. Do your research ahead of time so you’re not caught off guard. For example, even movies starring beloved actors like Michael J. Fox (Teen Wolf, 1985) can include surprising mature content—like sexual situations and party scenes—that aren’t tween-friendly despite the nostalgic packaging.

Ready for your next family movie night? Start with any film from this list, grab some snacks, and prepare for quality bonding time that your tween will remember for years to come.

What are your tween’s favorite movies? Share your recommendations in the comments below and help other parents discover new family-friendly films!