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How to Transition From the School Year to Summer Break (Without Hearing “I’m Bored” on Repeat)

How to Transition From the School Year to Summer Break (Without Hearing “I’m Bored” on Repeat)

Wondering what to do in summer once school's out, and how to survive it without losing your mind? Same. Whether you're searching for fun summer activities for kids or just trying to figure out a routine that doesn't fall apart by day three, I've got you. My main focus, though, is how to shift into a summer routine that feels good for everyone.

This is where a summer schedule for kids can come in handy — but not the same kind of schedule you have for school. No, this schedule is more about finding the right rhythm for your family, rather than a rigid routine. 

After all, your kids are out of school for 10-12 weeks. Being intentional with that time matters. 

Now I’m not saying to over-plan or over-schedule your kids. There’s no need for a Pinterest-perfect summer! But the vibe definitely shifts once school’s out, especially if you’re going for a more laidback 90s summer.  

So let’s talk about how to help your kids with the transition from school to summer.  

How to Transition Kids From School to Summer Break

Why It Helps to Have a Plan for Summer Break

Before becoming a parent, I never fully realized you had to get ready for summer. Even if you’re set on a more laidback 90s summer, going from structured days in a school setting to unstructured days outside is something you have to mentally prepare for. 

Here are the three main reasons to have a (flexible) summer schedule for kids. 

  • Avoid hearing “I’m bored,” over and over again. Being bored can actually foster creativity, but that doesn’t mean you want to hear it multiple times a day. Kids thrive on routine, even in the summer. Having a loose plan can help keep kids happy, busy, and off screens.

  • You want a laid-back summer but don’t want your kids sucked into screens. Not having a plan for the summer means it’s easy to fall back on TVs and tablets for entertainment. Your summer schedule for kids can act more like a summer bucket list of what you want to prioritize, rather than a set agenda that has to be followed strictly. 

  • It helps keep kids regulated. Knowing what their day is going to look like can help kids feel calm, safe, and secure. You can also make sure they focus on certain activities that get them moving, engage their brains, and encourage their creativity. Of course downtime is important, too. 

Summer Schedule Ideas for Kids: What to Keep

You don’t need to drop everything from your school routine. And even if you want a more mellow summer, it can help to have some sort of flow and consistency to your days. 

Think about it like this — when you don’t have anything to focus on, you might start to flounder. And if your kids’ days are wildly inconsistent, it can impact their mood and behavior.

Here are the key things that I keep as part of their summer routine:

  • Simple, age-appropriate chores. No school doesn’t mean a total break from responsibility. They can still make their bed in the morning or help with laundry on the weekends. If you need more support with this, check out my School of Life series for ideas.

  • Reading books (they get to choose). Did you know that kids can lose up to 20% of their reading progress during the summer? Encouraging summer reading can help prevent this learning loss and prep them for the next school year. Try not to worry about which books they gravitate to, though, and let them read for fun. 

  • Regular mealtimes. Later wakeups and lazy days at home might throw off their normal eating habits. Having breakfast, lunch, and dinner at around the same time is a simple way to give the day some structure. It also helps to be prepared with snacks!

  • Consistent sleep routines. There’s nothing wrong with later wakeups and bedtimes during summer. But kids still thrive on consistency (and they need their sleep!). Even if they get up or go to bed an hour later than normal, try to keep it around the same time each night — and keep the order of events the same. 

  • Learning — but keep it low-key. The summer slide is real, but there’s no need to spend hours every day doing homework. You can sneak in learning through fun, everyday activities instead. For example, kids can practice math skills while baking, building a Lego set, or playing a board game

  • Fun, screen-free summer activities for kids. While kids deserve to relax in the summer, I don’t want my girls to lay around all day every day, glued to a screen. Having a consistent activity for kids to do in the summer can give them a sense of purpose, help them build valuable skills, and boost their mental health. For my kids, it’s swim. For your kids, it could be an art class, science camp, or even just playing outside. 

A Flexible Summer Routine Moms Will Love

What to Drop From Your Routine

You get to decide what works for your family. But there are some things you can drop — or be flexible about — to make everyone’s life easier during summer break. 

Here are some ideas for what you can let go of: 

  • Early wakeups. Admittedly, my girls wake up early for swim. But if you don’t have somewhere specific to be — and your kids want to sleep in — let them snooze a bit longer in the summer. 

  • The constant rushing around. Summer is a great reminder to slow down and let kids enjoy their time off. Let them sleep past the alarm, relax more, and play outside longer. You could even ask them what they want to do more of (or less of!) during their break. 

  • Planned lunches at a table. Packing a lunch takes consistent effort. Let that go in the summer and be fine with snack plates and leftovers for lunch. You can also do picnic-style lunches outside or on a big blanket in the living room while watching a movie.

  • Multiple activities. By May, it’s normal for kids to feel burned out by schoolwork, sports, and extra-curricular activities. If you’re home with your kids this summer, resist the urge to fill their days with events and activities. Prioritizing rest and downtime are important. 

  • Long study sessions. According to a survey by The Better Sleep Council, 74% of teens are stressed out by homework. To prevent the summer slide, my daughters spend about 15 minutes a day during the week on Summer Bridge workbooks. We also mix in some work required by their middle school.

  • Strict screen time rules. Summer is a great time to loosen the grip a little. You don't have to track every minute. Just make sure screens aren't the default when boredom hits. 

What Our Summer Routine Actually Looks Like

Because we live in Houston, Texas, our summer days might look different than yours. We are typically go, go go in the mornings and then usually have quieter afternoons at home due to how hot it gets here. In July, it can be 100 degrees by noon, so I like to keep my kids out of the heat and sun by then.

Here’s the general flow of our day: 

  • In the mornings, we focus on outdoor activities, like walking the dog, riding bikes or scooters, playing outside, gardening, and going to swim practice. 

  • If we’re out and about, we usually get home by noon for lunch

  • In the afternoons, we do indoor activities, like reading, arts & crafts, baking, Summer Bridge school work, and watch movies 

Overall, we keep things pretty casual and flexible. 

Summer Schedule Ideas for Kids

How to Create Your Own Summer Schedule for Kids

Need tips for setting up your kids’ summer schedule? Here’s how to get started and what’s important to think about.

  1. Consider your own schedule. Your kids summer schedule will depend on your own. If you’re working full time, you’ll need to plan ahead for summer camps and how to fill in the gaps. If you’re a stay-at-home parent or off work for the summer, you’ll want to figure out what you want your days to look like.

  2. Factor in your kids’ ages. Younger kids will obviously need more support than older kids. My girls are now between the ages of 9-13, so they are more independent and don’t need me to help out with most activities or supervise their play.

  3. Decide your summer vibe. This depends on your schedule and kids’ ages, but you get to decide what kind of summer your kids will have. How structured or unstructured will it be? Will you be more flexible about screen time, snacks, and bedtimes? What will outside play or indoor time look like? 

  4. Brainstorm fun activities for the summer. Get your kids involved by asking them what they want to do this summer. Even if your kids want to rest more, have them help you come up with a summer bucket list so they don’t miss out on their favorite activities. This can also act as a fallback list for when they inevitably feel bored.  

  5. Give some thought to sleep routines. It’s easy for bedtimes to get pushed back during summer. Kids still need lots of sleep, so make sure to consider your family’s schedule. For example, my daughters still wake up early during the summer for swim practice, so their bedtime doesn’t vary much from the school year. 

  6. Figure out the structure of your day. This can be a simple, flexible schedule divided by morning, afternoon, and evening activities. Or you can create a theme for each day. For example, Monday can be a “make something” day where you focus on a creative project, Tuesday can be a  “touch grass” day where you do an outdoor activity, and so on.

  7. Hang up a visual calendar. Even if you’re planning to have a more laidback summer, it can benefit your kids (and you!) to have a reminder of your routine. You may also want to give your kids a daily checklist of tasks, which can help foster their independence. 

Summer Break Tips for Moms With Kids at Home

Summer Schedule Tips for Work-From-Home Parents

Working from home while your kids are home for summer break can be challenging. As you’re helping your kids transition from school to summer, it’s important to think about how it will impact your schedule, too.

Assuming your schedule is flexible, here’s how you can actually get work done and enjoy time off with your kids. 

  • Set clear work hours. I get up earlier in the summer to complete one or two tasks before my kids wake up. It’s not always ideal, but this allows me to be more present with my kids during the day. My kids also know that when I’m in the office, I’m working.

  • Lean on independent activities. This is where having a summer activity list comes in handy. Stock up on things your kids can do solo so you can get work done without constant interruptions. Think Lego sets, audiobooks, podcasts, art supplies, or outdoor play. My kids are older and are now happy to sit in my office and read while I work. 

  • Batch your focused work during their downtime. If your kids naturally wind down after lunch or during a movie, protect that window for your deepest work tasks. Work with their rhythm instead of against it. 

  • Don't skip the morning routine. Even on days you're not leaving the house, having a simple morning routine is key. Have your kids get dressed, eat breakfast, and do one activity. This helps them transition into the day and gives you a cleaner start to your own work. 

  • Give yourself grace. Summer with kids and a job is a lot. Some days will be messy, the laundry will pile up, and that's okay. The goal isn't a perfect schedule. It's a survivable, and yes, even enjoyable one. You've got this.  

How to Create a Summer Schedule for Kids

FAQ: What To Do on Summer Break

How do I transition my kids to a summer schedule?

You can ease the transition by keeping some things from their school routine so there’s some structure to their day and they know what to expect. You can also ask them what they want to do this summer or how they want to feel by the end of summer. Figuring out what matters most to them — and you — will help you decide what kind of summer to have and what your routine will look like. 

What does your kids summer routine look like? 

I love the idea of a 90s summer with some structure. It gets hot here in Houston, so we aim for outside time and outdoor adventures in the mornings. By noon, we are home for lunch and then stay inside and focus on fun indoor activities. Our days are very much divided by morning activities and afternoon activities.

What are some summer schedule ideas for kids? 

Consider what works best for your family. It may help your kids to have a summer schedule organized by their morning routine, afternoon routine, and evening routine — as well as their daily or weekly chores. Setting up a theme or focus for each day can also be helpful for parents with young kids. Then brainstorm a list of ideas that could fit into each theme.

What is a good summer schedule for kids? 

A good summer schedule isn’t rigid. Think about consistent mealtimes, a mix of outdoor and indoor activities and plenty of downtime. The sweet spot is structuring your day to avoid “I’m bored” complaining, but flexible enough to actually feel like summer. 

How do I make a summer schedule for kids? 

Start by thinking about your own schedule and your kids’ ages, then decide what kind of summer feels right for your family. From there, keep in a few routines from the school year like regular mealtimes and a consistent bedtime. Build in a mix of activities, rest, and free play from there. Get your kids involved by asking them what they want to do, and don’t be afraid to keep it simple. A summer bucket list can double as your loose plan. 

How do I create a balanced summer schedule with activities and rest? 

The key is not over-scheduling. It is tempting to fill every day, but kids genuinely need downtime to recharge at the beginning of summer, once the long school year is over. A balanced summer schedule includes one main activity per day (not five 🤣), plenty of unstructured play, and built-in rest time, whether that’s quiet reading, working on a puzzle, a movie afternoon, or simply hanging out. If your kids can get outside, move their bodies, and do something creative each week, you are winning at parenting!

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